There are more ways to answer this question than plucking flower petals. However, we still somehow find it hard.
Many people have an idea what love should be, how it should look and feel, but the sad thing is – most of them are just plain wrong. Thank you, romantic comedies. Because of that, many of us just cannot recognize the real thing even when it is right in front of us.
The point is, love really is a tricky thing. A person can say ‘I love you’ but not really mean that, and a person can also love you more than anything in the world, but not be ready to say it.
Love itself, being the most beautiful thing in the world as it is, can also be quite scary, and many people tend to keep their guard up until they are sure the other side won’t hurt them in some way. There is actually a saying that goes: “Before falling in love, make sure there is someone there to catch you”. And even though this saying might be true, there are still problems with it. A person can actually get caught up trying to figure out whether the other person loves them or not, which results in not being present in the relationship itself. Instead of connecting, the person gets stuck in their own worried thoughts that produce insecurities and fears which can block them from getting the love they wanted. Read the Post Does He Love Me? 5 Ways to Know for Sure